Getting married on Nov. 1 having a Masked Ball what do think of my idea?

Ok heres the idea my dress is red and my girls dresses are black. The groom is wearing a black Tux and the Grooms men are wearing white tuxes. Each of the girls bouquets will have their mask attached to it, that way then at the reception they can use there mask. The place i'm getting married at is a castle that is located Charlevoix, MI. The bridal party will be brought in on horse drawn carriages. My other question is do you think it would be ok to put on the invite that its a formal or semi formal affair and that they should rsvp? I just want this be great after its the last time i'll ever be getting married. Oh and also I was thinking that when everybody comes in for the reception handing them their own Mask after it is a masked ball.Getting married on Nov. 1 having a Masked Ball what do think of my idea?
Absolutely LOVE the idea of the masked ball!!!





I agree with some of the other posters, that I wouldn't put the groomsmen in white for a number of reasons. 1) when you have pictures taken the white of their tuxes will be what draws the eye to them not you and your husband. 2) White tuxes for the groom are questionable in Nov., but not for the guys. Maybe if you were having a spring wedding it wouldn't be so bad, but not Nov. 3) Let's face it, how many men do you know of that can go an entire day in a white suit and still be clean at midnight? - nuff said!





Here's some thoughts:





a) change your color thinking around a bit. Keep yourself in red (LOVE IT!!) and maybe put your bridesmaids in a lighter shade - champagne or a heavy cream and put the guys in the black. This way you keep your scheme just switch it. It'll be a lot easier talking the gals in to a lighter gown than the guys in to light tuxes.





b) I hope you and the maids are in full ballgowns! I think that'll be the most elegant for you.





c) Not sure about putting the gals masks in their bouquets. Is there any other way you can have the masks made accessible to them? Have someone in charge of giving them to the girls before entering the hall. Sometimes flowers can be clumsy to deal with and adding the masks may make it a little more awkward.





d) I would have it listed on your invitations as a 'masked ball' so that your guests are aware of it. Some people don't appreciate the element of surprise the way others do. It will also allow your guests to really get in to the spirit of things. They may want to purchase a mask or they may have something in mind that they could use. It will also give them a better inspiration for clothing.





e) have some 'spare' masks available for those that didn't undertand, forgot or had their mask break or something. I'd have a variety from plain to decorated available.





Good Luck and this sounds like sooooo much fun - enjoy it!Getting married on Nov. 1 having a Masked Ball what do think of my idea?
Trick or Treating is the day before. Most of us pack up our costumes for All Saints Day. With your luck, it'll probably snow in Charlevoix.
1. Are you sure you want your groomsmen in white? Typically no one but the bride gets to wear white at a wedding. Plus, I don't know how a lot of guys would feel about wearing a white tux. AND a white tux isn't very ';masked ball'; feeling. How about the groom wears one color vest under a black tux and the groomsmen wear different colored vest with a black tux as well. Much classier.





2. If you inform people on the invitation that masks will be worn at the reception some people might go out and find elaborate masks and bring their own. They could come up with some REALLY fabulous stuff! Having a bunch of plain or decorative masks would be a great favor idea though since not everyone will go buy one.





4. Make sure the masks are detachable from the bridesmaid bouquets. They don't want to carry their flowers around all evening at the reception. And masks that tie on rather than handheld ones are easier to wear if there is dancing involved.





3. I think a formal affair would be more appropriate for a ';masked ball';-like atmosphere.





Good luck and best wishes!
Wow, pretty fancy stuff there...it should be formal, and yes, provide the masks, as I can guarantee you, some people will be too lazy to go buy their own...and yes RSVP!!!!!
Sounds like a lame idea having a masked ball. You could do a halloween party like that or something, but please not a wedding.





As for the formal attire- Just put in the invite that it is black tie. That will get the message out for that.
That is so unique and I LOVE IT! I would def. say semi formal and RSVP on my invites!
Actually, this one sounds very cool. And yes, you should definitely have them rsvp and I think you can include on the invitation that it's formal or semi formal (you could put 'black tie' or 'black tie optional' I think). I like all your ideas!
Interesting, though not something I would do. Regardless of what you choose for the reception and ceremony, you must request an rsvp so you get a count accurately for the caterer.


However, most of all, you can't plan something this elaborate and then have a cash bar - you MUST have a full open bar.
Sounds really great! I want to come!
Sounds like fun! Put on the invite that it is a masked ball, and definitely that they should RSVP. When you pick out invitations they have some examples.
sounds expensive. have fun.
OH MY GOSH! I was totally thinking of that date yesterday! I think you should have the groom in white and the groomsmen in black, then change the color of your dress to be like a golden yellow and have your bridesmaids wear red... it will look more elegant that way, especially since it will be at a castle. I like the mask idea during the reception, bet definently not during the ceremony. The only flaw I thought of about having a wedding on Nov. 1st is that it is the day after Halloween and some of your guests might be out partying the night before.
People should always RSVP for a wedding, period. Beyond that though everything sounds nice just make sure you try out the masks first especially if they do more than cover the eyes. You need to find ones that are easy to wear so that guests don't keep taking them off to see or breathe easier. And make sure the bridal party isn't in the carriage too long. It's amazing how quickly that people can start to smell like a horse.
When you choose the invitation be sure to choose or design one with a masked bride and groom and the return RSVP cards should have red and black masks with strings entwined on them. It should absolutely be a black tie affair it is in a castle and the venue should entice your guests to dress. I love the idea of masks at the reception and would recommend you make them the place cards for the table assignments. Good Luck and may your day be a special memory for all involved and the beginning of an unmasked love for you and your intended.
mk just one thing! can I come to this wedding?! this is a kind of wedding i would want to go to...you should become a wedding planner!
To be perfectly honest, your wedding sounds like something from that MTV show ';My Super Sweet 16';. Themes are for parties, dear. Not weddings. I'm sure you want your guests to have fun at your wedding, but there are other ways to do so. Besides, using a ';masked'; theme makes it look like you have something to hide. Call me old-fashioned if you like, but I just don't think it's a good idea.
it sounds like you put alot of thought into it, and it sounds wonderful, but yes, you should always put rsvp on the invitations, and then maybe when they rsvp, then tell them about the formal dress code...
I think everything is great except that the groomsmen should not be wearing white tuxes! It doesn't go with the rest of what you have described at all. Invitations are supposed to have response cards included for people to use to RSVP so you really wouldn't mention it separately, it's already understood. I think the color scheme is good but the masks is a little over the top.
I love your idea! Original and fun, do include masks for the guests, they should RSVP, so you'll know how many will attend, it will be a huge hit with your guests. All my best to you and your soon to be husband!